Betty Friedan would be ashamed! Shanghai women may be rumored to be independent and strong willed, but it looks like the thing they’re still most afraid of is not getting married by the time they’re 30. These women, allegedly past prime child birthing years, are called “3s ladies” or “sheng nu” (leftover women). It seems that rather than looking up to these 70s-born career women, more than 70% of female graduates in 17 Chinese universities think they’re to be pitied. Well, if even top grads feel that way, then no wonder there’s such a huge university student “mistress” problem.