The “Goddess of Virginity“, a 38-year-old virgin single woman who created a website to get young people to abstain from sex before marriage, is now on the prowl for a man to call her own. Recently she appeared on (where else but) Sina Weibo, saying she not only wants a man with a stable job and income, but also wants a husband who can survive a 3-year trial without sex.
Tu Shiyou, the “Goddess of Virginity” says in her tweet:
MARRIAGE SEEKING: I am 38, virgin, have a master’s degree and am seeking marriage nationwide. 1. Candidates must be righteous. Members of the Communist Party are preferable. 2. Formal employment is necessary. No marriage history is allowed. Public servants are preferable. 3. Candidates must be below 40 years old and have a degree higher than master’s. 4. No sexual contact before marriage. 5. No sex during the post marriage 3-year trial period. Sex is allowed only after the trial. 6. Virgins are preferable. Candidates must meet all the first five standards. Please leave a message if you are interested. (【征婚】本人38岁，硕士学位，处女。现面向全国征婚：1、作风正派、党员优先；2、有正当职业、无婚史、公务员优先；3、四十岁以下、硕士以上学历；4、婚前不能发生性接触；5、婚后三年考察期不能过性生活、考察期结束后方可行夫妻之事；6、处男优先。1-5条缺一不可，有意者请留言。)
The post has created an uproar among netizens, with some saying this “Goddess of Virginity” is now competiting with Sister Feng.
Tu has denied all charges of showmanship, and said she is true-heartedly seeking a marriage. “[Sister Feng] seeks marriage to get famous and go to America. I seek marriage for happiness. I won’t go to the United States like her either. I very much love this land!”
Asked why she prefers Communist Party members, she says she thinks they are more dependable. As for the preference of public servants, she says she once heard that public servants are more concerned about pre-marital sex, a view in line with hers.
She also adds that the 3-year sexless trial is a test to identify those who truly wants to marry her. “If a man can accede to such a request, it means that he truly loves me, and is sincere,” she says.
And if she’s to be believed, the hunt for a husband is going very well. “Several men from all parts of China have expressed their love,” she says. “Most of them are excellent gentlemen. Now, I am filtering qualified men, and will contact those who meet my standard.”